A better rule: Sure, early on you don't want to blurt out, "If you don't want kids, tell me now." But at the same time, you shouldn't deny your own basic needs, wants or ambitions, says Dr. Don't be afraid of revealing that you're in the market for a long-term serious relationship and potential father for your children, or that you plan to go back to law school or move to Africa.
Lewandowski, whether that takes a week, a month or more.
If he's expecting you to move faster, ditch the pressure—and possibly him.
It's easy to think that if you don't feel the tingle at the outset—or at the very least, the first kiss—there's no way you're going to make it over the long haul.
But that sort of thinking might cause you to overlook the quiet-but-intriguing guy whose company you enjoy even though you don't feel a spark just yet.
This applies to all of your relationships, with your parents, your siblings, your own children, your spouse or partner, and your friends and favorite relatives and neighbors. What an awesome time to look back and see where a couple has come from and where they are going to.